KINDLE THE SABBATH LIGHTS
O YHWH,
our God, Lord, and Creator,
You perfected Your universe on day six
culminating in the ‘crown’ of Your creative work
—humankind—
then You set aside a seventh day.
If You chose to set apart this day for rest,
it behooves us who are made in Your image,
to do the same,
not simply to rest from our weekly chores,
but to take delight in the difference
of what we choose to do on this day,
a day set aside for You,
which makes this seventh day special for us.
O CREATOR of LIGHT,
in the meaningful family tradition of Your chosen people,
the matriarch of the family
kindles the Sabbath lights
and speaks the blessing:
Blessed are You,
YHWH, our God,
King of the Universe,
Who sanctified us with Your commandments
and commanded us to “sanctify the Sabbath.”
As the world celebrates motherhood,
we reflect on this fitting tribute —that
“God could not be present for every child born in this world,
and so God created mothers.”
You have designed woman
to be the perfect vessel
to carry and nurture new life
until she births a new person
from the darkness of her womb
to see the light of day;
and thereon to nurture that life
with selfless dedication
until she is ready to release this beloved part of her ‘self’
to take his own direction in life
in a world ridden with choices.
Bless all mothers, O GIVER of LIFE,
for their special role in the lives of children,
providing never-ending unconditional love to them;
may children young and old,
see in mothers that very image of You,
a loving God Who cares that each child
fulfills the purpose for which he was created:
to come to know You,
yet freely choose his destiny,
with You or without You in it.
May he choose ‘Life’,
Your Life,
for in doing so, his destiny is rightly directed.
and that brings great comfort to every mother’s heart.
Proverbs 31:28-31
Her children have risen and praised her;
her husband and he extolled her:
“Many women have amassed achievement, but you surpassed them all.”
Grace is false, and beauty vain;
a woman who fears YHWH,
she should be praised.
Give her the fruits of her hands;
and let her be praised in the gates
by her very own deeds.
BLESSINGS
O YHWH,
You perfectly designed the world we live in
to sustain all life—with sunshine and air,
water and a variety of nourishment.
We bless You for blessing us
with fruit from the vine and bread from wheat,
daily provisions that nourish body and soul.
In Your Tabernacle in the wilderness,
You consistently stressed two items together:
the Ark of the Covenant
which contained Your revelation on two tablets of stone,
and the table of shewbread
which was replaced every Sabbath.
How could we miss the connection:
that as we delight in nourishing our physical life,
we nurture our spiritual life by ‘feeding’ on Your Torah,
both, a joy and delight not only on Sabbath,
but as often as we desire food for body and soul.
We celebrate motherhood,
and ask for blessings upon all women
who deliver Your gift of life to each of their children;
may they be rewarded in the desires of the heart
that their children no matter how old,
will find joy and happiness
from the Source of it all—
You, YHWH, our Lord and our God,
their Creator and their very Source of life.
We ask for blessings upon our family,
fathers, mothers and children,
the blessing of lives
not only well-lived
but rightly-lived,
because of a special connection with You
Who determines length of life
and gives meaning for being born,
for being,
for existing
and even for the ending
of a lifetime.
May none of us waste precious time,
for every second and every minute is forever gone,
and none of us know the length of life
You have allotted each of us on this earth.
For the precious gift of time,
O YHWH,
GIVER of the breath of life,
we are thankful and celebrate Life!
To Life, l’chaim!
SABBATH MEAL
TORAH DISCUSSION
HAVDALAH
Shabbat shalom!
NSB@S6K