[First posted in 2012. This series ‘Journey of Faith’ features the Sinaite perspective on characters who figure prominently in the biblical narratives that trace the lineage of the chosen people of Israel. There are persons outside of ‘the chosen line’ who are interesting studies of character, often misrepresented or unfairly judged—one such is Esau. We’ve added this post to our current series on THE OUTSIDERS or THE OTHER, in effect THE UNCHOSEN, those who were not in the chosen line of Jacob. We belong to their category, you know? Here are the others belonging to the same category as Esau:
- The UNchosen: What if you were a gentile slave in Egypt?
- The UNchosen – My servant Caleb – a different spirit
- The UNchosen — “Call me Ishmael”
Related posts:
- Revisit: Becoming Israel – Esau and ‘Israel’
- Genesis/Bereshith 36 – “That is Esav, the tribal-father of Edom.”
- Genesis/Bereshith 35 – “Esav and Yaakov his sons buried him.”
Translation is Everett Fox, The Five Books of Moses.–Admin1.]
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At first glance, all one sees in Esau is his physical appearance. His name means “hairy,” Edom means “red.” A description such as “hairy red” hardly justifies this artist’s sketch of what Yitzhak’s firstborn twin must have looked like which has been added to the articles about Esau on the web.
If Yaakov was his twin, could he have looked like this? The answer is: scripture confines this description to Esau. But could he have really looked like a stone age caveman or the hairy ape?
- Identical twins result when the egg splits into two embryos after it has been fertilized; they have to be of the same sex;
- fraternal twins result when the mother has two eggs that are fertilized at the same time (they can be boy-boy, girl-girl or boy-girl).
If Esau and Yaakov were identical twins, then Rivka would not have gone to such lengths to disguise her son, all Yaakov had to do was talk and act and smell like Esau.
Genesis 27
11 Yaakov said to Rivka his mother: Here, Esav my brother is a hairy man, and I am a smooth man,12 perhaps my father will feel me-then I will be like a trickster in his eyes, and I will bring a curse and not a blessing on myself!
13 His mother said to him: Let your curse be on me, my son! Only: listen to my voice and go, take them for me.
14 He went and took and brought them to his mother, and his mother made a delicacy, such as his father loved.
15 Rivka then took the garments of Esav, her elder son, the choicest ones that were with her in the house,
16 and clothed Yaakov, her younger son; and with the skins of the goat kids, she clothed his hands and the smooth-parts of his neck.
His reactions are to be expected of any complacent firstborn who is incensed when he discovers his younger twin and his own mother schemed to deprive him of his inheritance . . . even if he casually exchanged his birthright for a bowl of soup during a moment of weakness.
Rabbinical writings however unfairly portray him as evil as early as when he was still in the womb, virtually negating the basic biblical teaching on free will and individual choice. Just look at this sampling of spiritual profiling, if not hostile portrayal of Esau which suggests predestination and lacks scriptural support: [Red for caution]
- Even while in his mother’s womb Esau manifested his evil disposition, maltreating and injuring his twin brother (Gen. R. lxiii.).
- During the early years of their boyhood he and Jacob looked so much alike that they could not be distinguished. It was not till they were thirteen years of age that their radically different temperaments began to appear (Tan., Toledot, 2).
- Jacob was a student in the bet ha-midrash of Eber (Targ. Pseudo-Jonathan to Gen. xxv. 27), while Esau was a ne’er-do-well (ib.; “a true progeny of the serpent,” Zohar), who insulted women and committed murder, and whose shameful conduct brought on the death of his grandfather, Abraham (Pesiḳ. R. 12).
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- The Rabbis emphasize the fact that Esau’s “hairy” appearance marked him a sinner (Gen. R. lxv.) and his “red” (“edom”) color indicated his bloodthirsty propensities (“dam” = “blood”; Gen. R. lxiii.); they make him out to have been a misshapen dwarf (Gen. R. lxv.; Cant. R. ii. 15; Agadat Bereshit xl.) and the type of a shameless robber, displaying his booty even on the holy “bimah” (Midr. Teh. to Ps. lxxx. 6); but his filial piety is nevertheless praised by them (Tan., Ḳedoshim, 15, where his tears are referred to; ib., Toledot, 24, where the fact that he married at forty, in imitation of his father, is mentioned approvingly).
Thankfully the Jewish encyclopedia balances this with a more objective account:
- Jacob’s elder brother (Gen. xxv. 25-34, and elsewhere; comp. Josh. xxiv. 4).
- The name alternates with “Edom,” though only rarely applied to the inhabitants of the Edomitic region (Jer. xlix. 8-10; Obad. 6; Mal. i. 2 et seq.). In Genesis (xxv. 25, 30) “Edom” (red) is introduced to explain the etymology of the name. The real meaning of “Esau” is unknown, the usual explanation “densely haired” (= “wooded”) being very improbable. “Usöos,” in Philo of Byblos (Eusebius, “Præparatio Evangelica,” i. 10, 7), has been identified with it, while Cheyne (Stade’s “Zeitschrift,” xvii. 189) associates it with “Usu” (Palai-Tyros).
- The “sons of Esau” are mentioned as living in Seir (Deut. ii. 4, 5).
- The “mountain of Esau” (Obad. 8, 9, 19, 21) and the “house of Esau” (Obad. 18) are favorite expressions of Obadiah,
- while by others as a rule “Edom” is employed to denote the country or the people.
- Even before birth Esau and Jacob strove one against the other (Gen. xxv. 22), which led to the prediction that the “elder shall serve the younger” (ib. 23). The first, coming forth “red, all over like an hairy garment,” was called “Esau.”
- He grew up to be a “cunning hunter, a man of the field” (ib. 27). One day coming home from the field, Esau, hungry unto death, sells his birthright to Jacob for a mess of porridge, which event is turned to account to explain his name (ib. 30 et seq.).
- When forty years old Esau married Judith and Bashemath, the daughters of the Hittites Beeri and Elon (Gen. xxvi. 34, 35).
- The favorite of Isaac, he is called to receive the father’s last blessing, but Rebekah treacherously substitutes Jacob for him (Gen. xxvii. 1-24).
- Discovering the fraud, Esau by much weeping induces the father to bless him also (Gen. xxvii. 38-40).
- Hating his brother Jacob, he vows to slay him as soon as the father shall have passed away. At his mother’s advice Jacob takes refuge with Laban, his departure being explained to the father as an endeavor to prevent a repetition of marital alliance with the daughters of Heth, so great a source of grief in Esau’s case (Gen. xxvii. 41-46). Esau thereupon takes a daughter of Ishmael to wife (Gen. xxviii. 9). After the return of Jacob the brothers make peace, but separate again, Esau passing on to Seir (Gen. xxxiii. 1-16, xxxvi. 6-8). No mention is made of his death.
We have learned from experience in checking out Jewish sources that one has to learn to distinguish “Biblical” from “Rabbinical” [please refer to a previous article on this website Jewish vs. Biblical]. We rely on and consult Jewish resources heavily and have learned much from them; in fact the articles we write pale in comparison with the insights and wisdom they dispense, we’re in kindergarten, they’re on Ph. D level. They have been studying their own scriptures for millennia not just centuries, so who are we to question their writing? However, just like any interpretation—whether Christian, Jewish or Sinaite—it is a good habit to always check out any teaching against scripture.
Here’s one more helpful tip from the Jewish encyclopedia:
Critical View: “Esau” (= Edom) later represents Rome.
- Esau is assumed to be the progenitor of the Edomites.
- His character reflects the disposition of this warlike people.
- The stories in Genesis purpose to account for their relations with the Israelites (Gen. xxv. 27, xxxii. 4, xxxiii. 1 et seq.), as well as to throw light on the fact that the “younger brother”—that is, the tribe or tribes that gained a foothold in the country at a later date—crowded out the “older,” and thus acquired the “birthright” (Gen. xxv. 29 et seq., xxvii. 28 et seq.).
- These narratives belong to both the Elohist and the Jahvist writers, as does Gen. xxxvi., which reflects, in the form of a genealogy, the historical fact of Esau’s mixture with Canaanites (Hittites) and Ishmaelites.
- To the priestly writer is due the statement that Esau’s marriage, distasteful to his parents, leads to Jacob’s being sent away (Gen. xxvi. 34, 35).
- The same authority is partly responsible for other names connected with Esau in Gen. xxxvi. 2, 3; xxvii. 46; xxviii. 1 et seq.
- Esau, according to this source (P), remains with his parents (Gen. xxxv. 29), and, after Jacob’s return, leaves only because of the lack of room (Gen. xxxvi. 6, 7).
Our previous article “Yaakov/Jacob, the Heel” ended with Esau’s lament upon discovering he had lost his birthright; it’s a very poignant scene between shocked father and displaced son; in fact heart-wrenching to read so that despite our knowledge that Yaakov is the divinely-ordained heir, he doesn’t come through as deserving of it at all, not at this point of the narrative anyway.
As for Esau, he is left with bleak future prospects as he is told he will have to work hard for his survival. At least in the case of Ishmael who was sent away, YHWH Yireh blessed him beyond Abraham and Hagar’s expectations. But Esau? Read vs. 39:
36 He said: Is that why his name was called Yaakov/Heel-sneak? For he has now sneaked
against me twice: My firstborn-right he took, and now he has taken my blessing! And he said: Haven’t
you reserved a blessing for me?
37 Yitzhak answered, saying to Esav: Here, I have made him master to you, and all his brothers I
have given him as servants, with grain and new-wine I have invested him- so for you, what then can I
do, my son?
38 Esav said to his father: Have you only a single blessing, father? Bless me, me also, father!
And Esav lifted up his voice and wept.
39 Then Yitzhak his father answered, saying to him: Behold, from the fat of the earth must be
your dwelling-place, from the dew of the heavens above.
40 You will live by your sword, you will serve your brother. But it will be that when you
brandish it, you will tear his yoke from your neck.
41 Now Esav held a grudge against Yaakov because of the blessing with which his father had
blessed him. Esav said in his heart: Let the days of mourning for my father draw near and then I will
kill Yaakov my brother!
Sibling rivalry, a recurring motif since Cain and Abel, Isaac and Ishmael, now Jacob and Esau, will be a thread running through scripture and straight into our times and our own family situations. Is it not unfortunate that the family as the most basic social unit is often rife with strife, and what is the most likely cause? In most cases, inheritance.
Genesis 28:
6 Now Esav saw that Yitzhak had given Yaakov farewell-blessing and had sent him to thecountry of Aram, to take himself a wife from there, (and that) when he had given him blessing, he had
commanded him, saying: You are not to take a wife from the women of Canaan! 7 And Yaakov had listened to his father and his mother and had gone to the country of Aram.
8 And Esav saw that the women of Canaan were bad in the eyes of Yitzhak his father,
9 so Esav went to Yishmael and took Mahalat daughter of Yishmael son of Avraham, sister of
Nevayot, in addition to his wives as a wife.
Will Esau fulfill his intent to kill his brother?
During the 14 year interval when his twin was slaving away to serve Laban, himself falling victim to others’ deceptions, Esau amasses for himself great wealth. Time does heal even the deepest wounds but only when one has the right attitude as Esau seems to have acquired. He learns to appreciate the fruits of his hard-earned labor and experiences a reversal of fortune, in other words ends up prosperous and is blessed after all. Why bother with an old grudge?
In Chapters 32-33 where the meeting between the two brothers is described, there is nothing but admiration left for this “hairy red” matured Esau. He had the motivation to live his life above and beyond the confining pronouncements of his father regarding his future; he is a good example of sheer determination to succeed on his own, left to his own devices, with no inheritance.
In a way, Yitzhak’s last words to him were prophetic: But it will be that when you brandish it, you will tear his yoke from your neck.
Harboring anger, resentment, bitterness is counterproductive in the least and destructive to ourselves and others at the most; it puts us in bondage to a self-imposed agenda we are obligated to fulfill, and for what?

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Did Cain get any satisfaction from giving in to his rage and taking his brother’s life? That could easily have been the route taken by Esau; and yet the Esau whom Yaakov feared and fled from for many years had quite unexpectedly undergone a change, evidently out of his own series of choices for himself for which he was eventually blessed. He did “break loose” and he did “shake [Yaakov’s] yoke from his neck. He decided to forgive and reconcile with the brother who did him wrong. That should be the lasting impression of Esau on a reader’s mind.
Did Yaakov apologize or ask his twin’s forgiveness? For the answer, read the Yaakov series “Becoming Israel.”
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